I am like the weather when it comes to patience. Sometimes I feel I can be the most steadfast, even-keeled person in chaotic situations and in the next moment I can give in to a panic or disruption to my timing and scream the end of the world.
Patience is interesting.
And it’s a choice.
When I would do projects with my kids when they were little, I would need to choose patience in letting the project take longer in order let them try, maybe fail, or just do it slower.
I confess look back and realize I could have done better with that because I was too caught up in getting it done.
I actually ache over the lost experience of watching them figure things out. I can’t go back and just be with them. But I can definitely learn from those experiences.
So how does patience fit for our Second Sunday of Advent?
Israel was told a Prince of Peace was coming. An Everlasting Counselor. The King of all Kings! The promised one, Messiah!
Generations would come and go and still they waited and looked forward to the day.
I’m curious sometimes the Jews as individuals and families handled it. We don’t really know.
What we do know is God kept his promise and the Promised one came in Jesus the Christ.
I like this verse from Romans how it speaks to patience.
“But if we look forward to something we don’t yet have, we must wait patiently and confidently.” Romans 8:25 (NLT)
Patience and confidence.
If we believe what we say we believe, that God is for us, with us, and the good work He started in us He will bring to completion, then patience becomes less about being tolerant (remember it’s a good work).
First, it actually helps us not miss the beautiful moment we are in moments where we need patience.
Second, there is a restful peace and trust available to us when we take confidence in God being at work even while wait.
I know for me in my past, present, and future there are situations I need to live in patience.
During this second week of Advent, go ahead and write down a couple things that you want to choose patience in.
Something you to rush the outcome and you need to let it be?
Share what you wrote down with your family. There is strength in your house in each other. This week, it’s wait and see with confidence.
God is good!