Lent and the Eide Family

As we enter this season of Lent, my family has decided to do something a little different.


The tradition is to give up something in the weeks between Ash Wednesday and Easter Sunday. Something that may be taking your focus off of Jesus and basically getting more of your attention than the Lord. It’s a good time for believers to commit to taking something out of their daily living in order to get closer God.

This is a pretty simplistic description but it is a common approach. People give up certain foods, habits, social media, movies, etc.

The Eide Family

The Eide Family

My family and I have decided to make a music commitment.

Being a family that loves music (imagine that) and has a lot of different tastes, we’ve decided to treat it like food.

If you have had an illness, you’re told to drink lots of liquids or eat chicken soup.

If you are an athlete, you’re instructed to eat good proteins, fruits, carbohydrates, do heavy workouts and then light workouts, and replenish your electrolytes.

If someone has the stomach flu, you don’t encourage a trip to Taco Bell for healing.

If someone is trying to improve their physical body you probably wouldn’t suggest to triple McDonald’s intake with everything supersized.

I truly believe that when it comes to the heart and mind, we should take the same approach.

In regards to music, I really believe it’s a big deal. Bigger than we give it credit for.

Without getting into a 20-chapter research project, simply put, music is one of the—if not the—most powerful form of communication we have. It engages emotions; it reminds us of past experiences; it brings feelings and memories to the surface.

You can hear a song with no lyrics and it can move you to tears or excite your heart.

When it comes to lyrics, your brain remembers everything. Everything! Ever walk into a store and find yourself singing a tune you haven’t thought about in years and then realize it was softly playing in the background? Did you realize you know the lyrics of tv show theme songs yet you don’t have the song on you iPhone?

Music is powerful and your heart and mind know it!

With that as a backdrop, for Lent the Eide family decided to listen to only music that we call worship.

Style was not a determining factor. If the song has lyrics, they’ve got to be songs with scripture, hymns, modern worship, etc. If it doesn’t have lyrics, we must recognize the melody line from a hymn or modern worship tune.

It narrows down the playlist for sure.

Before some of you jump on the soap box of “Are you saying secular music is wrong?” or “You can’t tell me that all of today’s ‘Christian’ music is good for you” or “Are you trying to make your family into one of those ‘eyes covered up, fingers in our eyes motivated by our fears’ families?”

That’s not what we’re doing.

Instead we’re looking at what Philippians 4:8 says:

Finally brothers what ever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, what ever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if anything is worthy if praise, think about these things

What we put in our mind through our ears and eyes matters.

Do I condemn all “secular” music? No, I do not.

Do hymns and modern praise and worship fit Phil. 4:8 perfectly? Nope.

But is it closer to fruits and proteins for the mind and heart and a help in the direction of getting focused on the God’s presence? I would say yes.

Well see how it goes. I can tell you I’m ok with a little less Taco Bell in my heart and mind. J

Think it through.

Leave a comment below and let me know what you think. Or tell me what your family’s doing for Lent.

God is good all the time!


5 thoughts on “Lent and the Eide Family

  1. Peder ~ you DO realize many Lutheran Hymns have 22 verses (but only verses 1, 5 & 7 are sung so there’s time for the Pastor to preach, and/or time to get home before sunset)

    Not that I want to tote Lutheranism, Martin Luther is likely horrified having a denomination named after him … but once I heard that he wrote worship songs to the tunes of popular music in his day … beer hall songs!

    Long Live Music!

  2. Very commendable “sacrifice”! I totally agree that we need to nurish our minds and souls with healthy things to maintain spiritual and emotional health.

  3. Love it! Music is huge and focusing on worship during Lent is a great way to focus on Jesus and what He
    sacrificed. A friend at work also gave me a new perspective about Lent this week. She’s not focusing on what she can “give up” but what she can “give back.”

  4. I used to love 80’s music, now all I’m in the mood for is praise music. It changes everything! I can’t be stressed or angry while worshiping God. Singing prayers to God is all I want to do sometimes. I believe in the garbage-in/garbage-out mentality. We must monitor what enters through our eyes & ears. I tell my Compassion kids to watch tv or listen to music knowing Jesus is sitting right next to them & if He wouldn’t approve of it, they shouldn’t be near it. Thanks for the post!

  5. Wow. This would be a huge challenge for me. How often do you need to turn off your own brain? On a minute by minute basis, my internal playlist runs from the Theme to the Mary Tyler Moore theme song, to “How Great Thou Art”, to (more often than not in the past two weeks) “Let It Go” or “Do You Want To Build A Snowman”. I make a lot of worship music out of secular songs, applying them to my life and my faith. I will have to think upon this.

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