I love the game of golf!
No secret to many of you.
I love the challenge of getting better, the competition, and the stories shared among friends.
No two rounds of golf turn out the same, and I especially love getting to play courses around the country I’ve never played before or are famous.
Unfortunately, I don’t play as much as I used to. A lot of circumstances play into why but I definitely appreciate every chance to play now more than ever.
It’s a game that tests the emotions, problem solving skills, coordination, and truly can expose your character good or bad.
It’s a fun moment when you make a long putt or hit a long shot that felt so right when you swung the club and lands close to the hole. It’s a game I hopefully can play a long time from now.
The worst thing I can do when it comes to golf is compare myself with other golfers.
Sounds kinda like a cute, simple thought but listen closely.
If I compared myself to other golfers, I would have quit a long time ago.
My brother Tom is a really good player. He beats me every time. I play with Tom more than I play with anyone else, and I’ve only tied him once.
Don’t get me wrong, I want to beat him some day. Beat him bad. I love him and he is my brother but oh I want to take him one time.
Tom and I golfing in Arizona
If I would have looked at his game then looked at mine and said I’m not good enough, I would have quit a long time ago.
Quitting would have saved me from a bunch of heartache, greens fees, golf balls, and emotional trauma.
But I also would have missed out on so many laughs. I would have missed out on being surprised in Florida by him and two other friends for a birthday golf outing. I would have missed out on so many good talks we have had about family, career, and life.
There are too many stories we tell from being out on the course that we did together that could never be told because they never happened.
I would have missed those things! All because I compared myself to someone else.
To the Christian Church, I make this appeal: please don’t compare your self to other churches.
Don’t measure your worth on how good you are based on how other churches are growing or their technology or what ever.
If you do that, you’re missing what’s going on in YOUR church.
God is doing things in your church that are not being done anywhere else!
Are you aware of that? Are you seeing them?